Growing Pains
This compelling and
timely drama by Paula Vogel (Profile Theatre is doing their next season’s shows
by this author) and is directed & produced by Dorinda Toner. It is playing at their space, 7515 N. Brandon
Ave. (just off Lombard, upstairs, free parking lot East of the building)
through August 11th. For more
information, go to their site at www.twilighttheatercompany.org
When I was in
school, mid-50’s to mid-60’s, it was pretty dull on the social front. Plus, I went nine years of that time to a
Catholic school, so even more predictable, and lived a pretty normal,
middle-class life…in other words, nothing really earth-shattering happened in
my world. No social media or cell
phones, pretty much dullsville in comparison to today’s Youth. But one thing that was never broached around
family and friends was Sex and how to deal with those mounting feelings of
desire. We, quite simply, were in a dark
hole in that regard, with no mentors to guide us.
But, according to
Vogel, rural Maryland during that time period, was a whole different story, at
least for these characters. The whole
family seemed to be obsessed with Sex, in one way or another, even to the older
generation. So, a young girl, just
blooming into her teens was hearing a lot of stories, but no real guidance of
how to handle herself in that regard.
Li’l Bit (Adria Malcolm) seemed to have the cards stacked against her
from the beginning. And when her Uncle
Peck (Michael J. Teufel) takes a “special” interest in the budding young life,
then the whole world is going to change around her.
It all begins with
secret conversations, slightly naughty, cheesecake photos, touching and feeling
and, driving lessons. Peck has been
“damaged” somehow in the War so, like our returning Warriors of today, brings
these problems into civilian life, and even drinking does little to quell the
pain. And Li’l Bit is in the unenviable
position of being a buffer between his tortured world and her emerging
one. The results are not pretty and her
family and friends, played by a Chorus (Noelle Guest, Kaylee Hawkins, Chris Murphy,
Sarah Nolte Fuller and Mark Turvin) do little to help. The results you’ll just have to see for
yourselves, but this is very adult material, so be warned.
Vogel has given us a
compelling and intricate story on a very delicate subject. Her characters are neither black nor white,
but inhabit that gray area that engulfs us all.
But neither does she skirt around the matter, either, giving us a
realistic look at the growing pains of a young, caring girl and the family in
which she is saddled with. Mentors are
needed in such conditions and they are there, reaching out…all one needs to do
is take their hand. (An excellent film
from last year, Eighth Grade, gives a realistic view of Youth of today.)
Toner has done a
fine job of casting and delicately nudging her cast in the right
direction. The Chorus is very powerful,
a band of neighbors you hope never to meet.
Teufel, as the uncle, rides that thin line between being manipulative
and genuine caring. Very good
performance. And Malcolm, as Li’l Bit,
is stunning! She is totally convincing
as this young girl/woman, from 11 to 45, and your heart both breaks for her and
yet cheers for her. She is an amazing
and accomplished actor and I would love to see her again onstage. She has some impressive credits already and
I’m sure the future is bright for her to garner many more.
I highly recommend
this play for the discerning audience.
If you do choose to see it, please tell them Dennis sent you.
--DJS
The following is a review by a budding theatre
reviewer I’m mentoring,
Martha Harris:
The girl trudges
through the trenches of adolescence, feeling invisible and hyper-visible to the
rest of the world. A guy finally notices her, cares for her, sees all of her
complexities, and is the first to tell her “I love you.”
A classic story we’ve seen over again in its
many variations, meant to warm your heart with the sweet innocence of young
romance. But when that scene plays out in Paula Vogel’s “How I Learned to
Drive”, the more common reaction is disgust. After all, what we’re watching
doesn’t take place in the halls of high school, but between a middle-aged man
and his 13-year-old niece.
In “How I learned to Drive”, now middle-aged Li’l Bit (Adria
Malcolm) takes us through a non-chronological series of memories, that occurred
during the 1960s in rural Maryland, surrounding her
driving lessons with her Uncle Peck (Michael J. Teufel). Uncle Peck wants to
teach Li’l Bit lessons about life, driving, men, and entertains all of her
naive musings on the world. But he’s also teaching her from the age of 11 about
sex through flirtatious comments, giving her alcohol while she’s underage,
private provocative photo sessions in his basement, fondling of her body, and
counting down the days until her 18th birthday.
In addition to their relationship,
Li’l Bit also invites us into the conversations her family and classmates had
growing up about sex and the nature of men and women. A Greek chorus of three
performers (Kaylee Hawkins, Noelle Guest, and Chris Murphy), portray those
remaining characters, helping us to see this culture of guilt, secrecy, and
seeing men as children and sex as a duty, that formed Li’l Bit’s viewpoint and
excused Uncle Peck’s behavior.
The chorus members often add comedy
to this disturbing and serious situation, making it harder for the audience to
form black and white judgements on the situation. Vogel has no clear villain or
heroine. She is not writing to cast blame, but telling a story where the
audience has to exercise empathy and ask questions instead of receiving
answers. For such a complex situation, Vogel shows us that we have to think a
little harder.
And this particular production by
Twilight Theater Company, directed by Dorinda Toner, is as relevant today as it
was over twenty years ago when it first premiered.
The nearly bare stage and basic lighting, allowed the focus
to remain on the characters and their stories. Keeping only the essentials one
might remember from a twenty-year-old memory.
Malcolm as Li’l Bit does a fantastic job maintaining that
distinction between memory and reality, clearly switching between the
hyper-vulnerability of her youth and raw edge she’s acquired as an adult
retelling the story. She commits fully to the flirtatiousness, unaware of what
she’s doing, but you slowly see her add layers of defense in her older years.
Malcolm adds excitement and wonder to these first experiences, which the
audience can’t help but understand and share in her joy of, while also wanting
to reach out and stop her. Outside of Li’l Bit, the slow pacing of the show was
an interesting juxtaposition to that excitement and the intensity of the
content, but at times veered on the side of sleepy.
This harrowing memory play, “How I Learned to Drive” by Paula
Vogel, can be seen at Twilight Theater Company now until August 11th. For more
information or to purchase tickets, visit
https://www.twilighttheatercompany.org